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Happy Gay Couple seeks Stable Female or Lesbian Couple for Co-Parenting

Greetings and thank you for reading our ad. We are stable, committed gay couple in Dallas seeking a local healthy/secure single female or lesbian couple interested in exploring the opportunity of co-parenting together. It takes a village to raise a child and we think that a child could never have too much love in his/her life, so we would be interested in exploring this with the right female/couple.

We are 37 and 35 year old professionals, in a loving committed monogamous relationship for 7+ years, healthy, disease and drug free with lots of friends and family close by. We have talked about starting a family for years and are ready to take this to the next level. I am 5'8", 165 pounds, brown hair/brown eyes, part native American/German/French. I am member of Mensa, tri-lingual and have a master's degree. My spouse is 5'4", 130#, brown hair/brown eyes and of German/Irish ancestry with a college degree. We are a mature, loving and financially stable couple who spend our weekends with family or at our second home on the lake. We love to spend time with our niece and nephews, travel, laugh, play outdoors and entertain in our free time. We can be silly, serious and caring and we are each other's best friend and supporting pillar in life.

We are looking for a healthy, caring, mature and financially stable female or lesbian couple open to the idea of co-parenting. Age/race is not important so long as you can healthily conceive. We want to share the emotional, financial and parental obligations required, so only respond if you are in the DFW area and are willing to treat us as equal partners in this wonderful experience. It is important to us that you want us to play an active role in the child's life, as we certainly want a loving mother for our child too. We are seeking a woman/couple with values and beliefs like ours who is interested in first becoming friends and then starting this journey together.

If you would like to learn more, please send an email to twogaydads@gmail.com and tell us a bit about yourself and what you seek. We are happy to trade pics as well.

Thanks and God Bless :-)

[Posted on 3 July 2008]

Can You Make My Dream Come True

I am an educated and professional African American Male in his late 30's who is looking for a co-parent or a surrogate to help me become a father. I will like to have at least two children with the same person. If it is a co-parent situation I would want to have joint legal and physical custody of the child. If it is a surrogate situation, I have no problem with the child knowing his or her mother. I have tried the traditional route, but have not found that suitable "lady" to marry and I want to become a father while I'm young enough to have the possibility of seeing any grandchildren my child/children might have.

I am very serious about becoming a father and I would like to discuss the situation with you as soon as possible. Race and sexuality is not an issue with me. I am a very open minded person and I hope you are also.

Currently on the west coast, but hope to relocate to the east coast real soon.

I can be contacted via email at livingjay@yahoo.com.

Thanks.

[Posted on 14 June 2008]

Sperm Donor: Older, Scientist, Successful Entrepreneur, Widower

I am loving, tall, blue-eyed, trim & fit, healthy, very intelligent, financially successful, a widower.   I have been tested disease free and healthy sperm. I donated successfully to 3 women and expect to donate until I am successful 1 or perhaps 2 more times. The most recent time was 2 weeks ago, May 2008; The woman successfully inseminated herself at home with a syringe, (no catheter). You may ask me what I think works if you e-mail me.

I will donate to a woman who is intelligent and professional, not over weight and ready to be a devoted mother. My involvement, if any, is 100% up to you, but I would like to provide help with first year expenses, a college scholarship and an inheritance. If you live far from Austin, I can ship, at my expense, a fresh donation overnight, but I expect us to meet once in person first. Trade photos. (The posted photo is me at age 18.)

E-mail: topgenes@gmail.com

[Updated on 18 May 2008]

City: Houston

Hi, I am a 25 year old, six foot, beautiful, curvy, African American, heterosexual female. My mind, body, and soul are precious to me. I am an open minded, talkative, "big kid". I love to go outside and play tag with the neighborhood kids. I still hate it when I get caught! On to bigger things, I have a bubbly personality, team spirit, I love to explore new things, cultures, and activities. I lived in Spain most of my childhood (speak Spanish fluently). I have two little boys, Korendez 5 years old and Kortez 4 years old. They are my pride and joy. As a little girl, I always told my mom I wanted several children. She would laugh it off and say "you say that now, but wait until you have them". I never lost sight of what I really wanted. I would like to have at least 4 children, but willing to have 6 max. I would like to have a water birth experience for my next pregnancy. Giving birth for the first time was breath taking. To know that I carried a little baby for nine months and delivered a healthy baby successfully, brought me so much joy. Some time in the future I want to be a surrogate mother for a loving couple. Baby dust to all true believers!

I really want a traditional lifestyle, I love to entertain, very family oriented!

Please contact me @ latashajackson143@hotmail.com if you are serious about having little bundles of joy!

[Posted on 6 May 2008]

Willing Father

I'm 39 years old. Gay, in a 13 year relationship. Caucasian. Professional (architect), grad student (UT). I would like to become a father to a loving single woman or couple. Prefer lesbian couple because of similar life experiences, but straight couple is fine. I would like to baby sit and visit the child on a regular basis. I have a nice home and a stable life situation. If you're interested, please contact me at gferg12469@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 6 April 2008]

Single, Attractive Woman Seeks Co-Parent

[Posted on 4 April 2008]

Lesbian Couple Seeking Sperm Donor in Houston, TX

We are a 29 yr old Hispanic and 24 yr old African American lesbian couple seeking to find an African American donor that is willing to sign over their rights. The donor has to be disease free and drug free. Will need the donor to donate their sperm until we conceive.

We are a loving, caring and financially stable couple that is ready to start a family. We do not have any children... the only children we have is a dog (Charlie) and a cat (Garfield). We really need your help in making this miracle happen. Only serious applicants. Email us @ f_vmartinez@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 18 February 2008]

Great Guy Looking to Co-Parent

I am a single 40yr old gay African American man in search of co-parenting a child or two. I am looking to be a sperm donor to a couple or single woman, gay or straight. I am looking to be a part of the child's life. If my ad sounds interesting to you, please email me at phillinthis1@yahoo.com.

[Posted on 15 February 2008]

Prof Gay Male Looking for a Woman to Donate 9 Months

Hi, I'm a 41 year old gay male who has always wanted a child but could not produce one on my own. I am hoping to find a woman who would be willing to help me out. I have a great career and at this point in my life, I feel I would make an excellent parent.

The one point that I think is extremely important is that I WANT a child, how many children are brought into this world to parents that do not really want them.

Should you feel that you could help me out, please please contact me at DThorpe810@aol.com. I would be so glad to hear from you.

Thanks

[Posted on 9 February 2008]

Gay Male Couple Seeks Surrogate Mother

My partner and I have been together 7+ years. We are interested in fathering one or more children with a woman/women who may been interested in co-parenting, but giving up legal rights to the child. We are both healthy, drug and disease free and in our early 40's. I am a white male and my partner is Hispanic. We would assist with financial compensation and medical payments related to the pregnancy.

If interested please e-mail us at gjspring@aol.com with information including your physical description, age, health information, education background and family background.

Sincerely,
Gary

[Posted on 22 January 2008]

Enthusiastic Lesbian Looking for Donor or Co-Parent

Hello, I'm a 31-year old attractive African-American lesbian currently in the Tulsa area (willing to relocate if needed). I am seeking a nice guy to become a sperm donor only or co-parent depending on the situation. I am financially stable, well educated, and very excited about the possibility of having children. It is long overdue and maybe you can help me achieve this goal. Financial and legal responsibility is optional but not required. I am willing to pay for sperm testing and donation.

Serious inquiries may contact me at oneshenita@hotmail.com. I am open to all races and sexual orientations (drug/disease free please).

[Posted on 12 January 2008]

Lesbian Couple Seeks Donor

We are a committed Hispanic lesbian couple seeking to begin a family. The concept of an involved gay male co-parent or a gay/straight donor who does not wish to be involved in the child's life are both options. Ethnicity does not matter. Disease free! We are both financially stable and willing to pay a fee for just a donor.

Preferably we are searching for someone in the Dallas area. We can be reached at AngelinaC82@aol.com.

Sincerely,
Angel & Jessy

[Posted on 2 December 2007]

Please Help Me Become a Father City: Corpus Christi, Texas For the past 8 years I have been helping my friends and family raise their children, and now I’m hoping all that good karma I’ve created can help me to become a father of my own child. I am looking for a woman who is willing to carry a child for me and not have parental rights or for a woman who is interested in co-parenting with me. I am a heterosexual licensed professional counselor who is 6-foot tall, weighs 160 pounds, and has light brown hair with blue eyes. Please contact me at Openrds@yahoo.com. [Posted on 9 November 2007]

Looking for a Female Surrogate/Partner for Parenting!

Hello, we're a young spirited professional gay couple that has been together over 4 years and are looking for a female surrogate/partner. We would be open to either full parental rights or, to co-parenting. The ideal candidate must be drug/disease free, intelligent and healthy.

yex101@aol.com

[Posted on 8 November 2007]

Interested in being a Father through Unconventional Means

I am a 39 year old gay man who wishes to father a child. It is important to me to create a child and a legacy. I am interested in a variety of arrangements from simply being a donor to being a co-parent with the right person. I am healthy with a great family health history. I have a great career and love to give, however I can also discuss a donor relationship too.

If you are interested please contact me at David@jshorton.com.

[Posted on 21 August 2007]

Mother and Child Looking for Sibling and Father

Hi,

I am the mother of a beautiful, amazing, three year old boy, and we would very much like to have another baby. I am a straight, pretty, very intelligent, healthy medical professional with blonde hair, blue eyes and great genes; I'm happy and successful and have lots of family and friends and a beautiful home. Frankly, I don't know why I'm still single, but I decided a few years ago not to let that stop me from having a family. I co-parented with a friend who is an only child the first time, and he is content to stop at one. I come from a very large family, though, and I really want my son to have a sibling or siblings. I've considered a sperm bank, but I also would really like for my next child to have a loving father like his brother does.

We're looking for a dad who wants to be very involved, both emotionally and financially, and who lives close enough to make that feasible. Caucasian, I guess, since we are. If you're on this site I assume you are a liberal, so gainfully employed is our only other criterion for consideration at this point. Email me at berrydara@yahoo.com if you want to be a father and would like to talk about whether we would be a good match.

[Posted on 25 June 2007]

Loving Couple in San Antonio, Texas Searching for a Surrogate

We are a loving couple from San Antonio, Texas who are still searching for a surrogate to have a baby for us through at-home artificial insemination. (This means that it would be your egg and my husband's sperm and you would use at-home techniques such as a syringe to inseminate.)

We are looking for someone who is honest and kind and who understands the heartbreak that we have felt because of our inability to conceive. My husband and I would be the best parents in the world. We are funny and sweet and creative and really nice but we are just waiting for a wonderful angel to help us on our journey to be parents. If you are interested, please feel free to email Mike and Emily at emmetexas@yahoo.com. Thanks.

[Posted on 13 April 2007]

Responsible Man who is Ready to become Father (Co-Parent)

I am a gay male working and living in Houston, Texas. I am 35 years old, 5'6, 145 Lbs, hazel eyes, good looking and healthy, drug and disease free.

I am looking for a gay female or bisexual woman, who really wants to be a mother, and who be committed to co-parenting a happy child. I think it is important and beneficial for a child to receive love, care and support from two parents. I am a responsible man who has great sense of humor, and I am able to support my child financially as well emotionally. Race is not an issue, but I'd prefer an African American woman.

I have a partner (gay male) and we have been together for almost 8 years. So you want to be a mother and I want to be a father, so let's make both of our dreams come true.

If you are serious, please E-mail me at TSUGREYSTONE@HOTMAIL.COM and type (The best friend for co-parenting) in the subject line so that I can be prompt in my response. I am really sincere. Please feel free to contact me if you are interested. Thanks.

[posted on 15 March 2007]

Seeking Donor/Co-parent

Hopefully there is a match out there who understands where we're coming from. I'm a woman currently committed to another woman and neither of us has kids (we are both 30+ African-American women). We are stable in other areas of life but are really wanting to have a child. This is where the right man comes in. This is not a situation where we want the donor to sign away rights to the child. In fact, we're hoping for quite the opposite. We have avoided the anonymous sperm donor route in favor of having a father figure present in our child's life. We would work out visitations and other issues together.

We're seeking a guy who wants to have a child and help raise it. No financial support will be sought. All financial assistance is strictly optional. We are looking for a man who is stable and committed to trying to get us pregnant for at least 6 months through sperm donations for artificial/self-insemination (no intercourse). We will pay costs to ship donations where necessary. If you're fertile, healthy, disease-free and have been thinking about starting or expanding your family, please contact this ad for further details. Age and race is open but men of color are encouraged to respond. We would like to find a good man who will turn into a good father for the child.

Please e-mail us at isobabymaker@yahoo.com. Cheers!

[Posted on 10 March 2007]

Committed Lesbian Couple Seeks Sperm Donor

We are a lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. We are both well educated, stable, and financially secure. We have been together for 6 years. We desperately want a child. Unfortunately, we can not make one on our own. So we would like to ask you for your help.

Our sperm donor would be willing to sign away all rights. Must be drug and disease free. Please respond ASAP. We are anxious to get the process started.

Willing to generously compensate.

More information can and will be provided once we open the lines of communication. Please respond to baby4us143@hotmail.com.

Please consider us. We will make great parents and provide a loving home.

[Posted on 4 February 2007]

Lesbian Couple Looking to Start a Family

We are a committed lesbian couple seeking to begin a family. The concept of an involved male co-parent or a donor who does not wish to be involved in the child's life are both options that we are open to. Ethnicity does not matter.

We are professional women who enjoy a variety of extra curricular activities including playing flag football, softball, soccer and rugby. Also, we have a large biological and extended family in place where a child would be easily accepted. We look forward to hearing from some lucky individual in the near future. We prefer a donor from the Houston Area.  barb73165@sbcglobal.net.

[Posted on 28 November 2006]

Attractive Latino wants to be a Papa

Hello! If you are reading this, you are probably my angel. I'm a GHM 32 year old who comes from a very healthy and well-educated family with high values. I've always wanted to be a dad and so far I can give this paternal love to my nephews and my friend's kids. I'm 5'7" tall, 170# and in shape. Black hair, brown eyes, medium complexion. I have a Bachelor's degree in Communication and work for a very well respected news organization. I'm also a musician an writer. D.D.F.

I'm looking for someone to help me having my own baby-girl or babies (twins, hopefully). Race is not an issue, but I'd prefer a Caucasian, Black, Hispanic or Biracial woman; D.D.F. Height and weight proportionate. You must be willing to give up your rights as a parent, but if you want to you can see the baby as much as you want depending on where you live.

I'm willing to be a sperm donor and we share all the fees and expenses involved in the process, or I will pay a fair fee for your help. Should you have any question, please don't hesitate to email me at andres3791@hotmail.com. Thank you and God bless you.

[Posted on 29 September 2006]

Professional Fun-Loving Male Looking to become a Dad! City: Austin All around nice and great guy with a sincere passion for life wants to be a Dad. I am seeking a woman who shares the same values and desires to become a parent. Family and friends have described me as being total "Dad Material". I am a Godfather to a few of my friends. And "Uncle Bill" is where my siblings send their kids to. I have a successful career and a heart the size of Texas to share with a one child or more. I will consider being a Donor, but on terms where I can actively participate in the child's life. I come from an incredible background and family. I have been blessed with an incredible upbringing and privilege. I have studied piano for 22 years and have been active in athletics since college. I can give physical details and photos upon further interest. I am 35 yrs of age. Healthy on all levels.

For many years I have desired a traditional marriage and family, but it just hasn't happened for me as of yet. I am looking for a woman who is perhaps in the same situation or has asked herself "Is there a man out there that shares the same hopes and dreams as I do?" I enjoy, sports, cycling, boating and traveling. I love kids and can't wait to have a few. I am a caring, masculine, spiritual man, as well as educated and professional. I believe I would make a wonderful husband (best friend) and father. I am looking for what I call a best friend to co-parent a couple of children and raise a family. Basically, I am looking for a person in a similar situation in that wants a traditional or non-traditional arrangement and home life for our children. She is professional, goal-oriented, and beautiful inside and out. A woman who wants kids, and has varied interests. You are a woman with a unique potential in and arrangement like this, let's get to know one another and see what happens. I am simply asking that we both take a chance and see what happens... If you are serious, please email me at: logansurfer33@yahoo.com and refer to this posting in the subject line so that I can be prompt in my response. Regards, William Logan [Posted on 19 July 2006]

Male Professional Seeks Best Friend and Marriage Mate for Co-Parenting

Friends describe me as "A great catch". I'm flattered. Actually, I'm just blessed. God has blessed me with life, wonderful experiences, talents, varied interests, health and strength. For many years I have desired a traditional marriage and family, but having a same-sex attraction prevents that from happening. Thus, I am looking for a lesbian, bisexual or straight female who is interested in co-parenting. I am African American, 6', 195 lbs, 40 years old. I enjoy, sports, movies, theatre, and traveling. I love kids and can't wait to have a few. I am a caring, masculine, Christian, advanced-degreed professional who would make a wonderful husband (best friend) and father. I am looking and praying for what I call a Marriage Mate and Best Friend to co-parent a couple of children and raise family.

Basically, I am looking for a person in a similar situation in that she is gay but she too wants a traditional Christian marriage and home life for her children. She is professional, goal-oriented, and beautiful inside and out (height and weight proportionate with a great smile), wants kids, and has varied interests. African American or Hispanic/Latino ladies are a plus. Whether you are a lesbian, bisexual, or straight but you see a unique potential in and arrangement like this, let’s get to know one another and see what happens. I am simply asking that we both step out on faith towards a chance at a great partnership and raising some beautiful kids.

If you are serious, please email me at grangerellis@yahoo.com and type "Best friend for Co-parenting" in the subject line so that I can be prompt in my response.

[Posted on 13 July 2006]

RESPONSIBLE MAN WHO IS READY TO BECOME A FATHER (CO-PARENT)!

I am a stable, well-adjusted 35 year old masculine gay African-American man who wants to become a father. I come from a large family and enjoy being around kids.  I have helped to raise a few of my nieces and nephews and have developed a good relationship with them. Now, I would like to have that special bond with my own child/children.

I am looking for a woman (bisexual or lesbian) who really wants to be a mother, and who would be committed to co-parenting a happy child (or two, or three)! I think it is important and beneficial for a child to receive love, care, and support from two parents. I am highly educated and financially stable, so I am able to support my child/children financially as well as emotionally.

I am drug and disease free, work out 3-4 times a week, and am a conscious healthy eater "most" of the time. I am a responsible man who has a great sense of humor and believes in living life to the fullest! You want to be a mother and I want to be a father, so lets make both of our dreams come true! Ethnicity is not an issue for me, all I ask is that you are a stable, honest, loving, and caring woman who is open to all the great joy this opportunity will bring. Contact me at: chocreintx@aol.com.

[Posted on 10 July 2006]

Need Female Surrogate...All Expenses Paid

We are a Gay couple looking for female surrogate. We have been together for 13 years, are financially stable, professional, college educated, large home, and have an extensive family support network. We are looking for a surrogate willing to forego all parental rights. Must be attractive, drug/disease free, and intelligent. All medical expenses will be paid in addition to surrogate fee. We are really looking for a very special women who is willing to make a huge sacrifice to provide a child to a great couple who will provide the absolute best environment possible.

[Posted on 1 June 2006]