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Good Hearted, Family Oriented Male Seeking Female Who Shares Dream to Co-parent

Hello! I am a single, professional, well educated and healthy male living in Connecticut/New York City suburbs. My dream in life is to have a biological child. Due to my life circumstances and busy work schedule, it would be impossible for me to raise a child as a single parent. I have a terrific career and am financially secure, however the one void in my life is not having a child.

I come from a loving family and have often been told I would be such a great dad. I am seeking a female who wants to co-parent a child. I am seeking a woman who is also professional/educated/financially secure and just like me cannot raise a child by herself. I would want us to be equally involved in raising the child and be dedicated to equally sharing the responsibilities. I am seeking a woman who is emotionally stable, kind and a generally good hearted person like myself. I am open to communicating with a woman from anywhere in the United States who shares in this lifelong dream to have a biological child. I hope to find a woman who understands the importance that the child have both parents equally involved in his/her life.

Please feel free to email me if you have an interest in communicating further. My email address is : wanting2coparent@sbcglobal.net.

[Posted on 29 May 2008]

Seeking Man to Donate Sperm for Known Donor or Uncle-Type Situation

Hi. I am a 39 year old lesbian seeking to have a child. I have a fantastic career and I love my life. But something is missing and I long to be a mommy. I come from a wonderful family and I have oodles of love to give my child. I am financially stable, emotionally secure, and eager to embark on this phase of my life.

I am seeking a donor who wants to be involved in my child's life by being part of his/her emotional and spiritual support system. I am not looking for someone to be involved legally or financially. I want my child to have the opportunity to develop a positive and healthy relationship with his/her donor/dad. I believe it is ideal for children to be able to know where they come from. If I were to have a child with anonymous sperm from a sperm bank, that child would not have the opportunity to grow up knowing his/her donor/dad. And naturally, I want to provide what is best for my child. I am trying Gay Family Options after some of my gay male friends indicated that they aren’t ready to take on the responsibility of being a donor/dad.

I currently live in Boston and work at a large hospital/university. I have a PhD. I consider California my home and would love to return there one day. I haven’t moved back because my career has really taken off here in Boston. I don’t have a preference for where you (the donor) currently live. I am willing to surmount geographical barriers for the right situation. Looking forward to hearing from you. I can be reached at hlc1561@gmail.com.

[Posted on 26 May 2008]

Sperm Donor, 36 Available - Paternal Rights Not Wanted

I am a healthy 36 year-old male residing in New England who is open to donating sperm to an individual or couple. I am not seeking any parental rights, and desire to keep my greater privacy intact. Recipient takes full responsibility of the child. I have helped to produce one child thus far, and would enjoy the opportunity to do it again. I'd prefer the recipient be open to natural method; I have found at-home artificial insemination to be tedious and ineffective. I realize this arrangement will not be for everyone, but I figured I would be completely up-front.

Vital Information General Location: NH Age: 36 Type: Caucasian Height: 6’ Weight: 164 Hair color: Brown Eye color: Hazel Skin: Fair Build: Slender / Athletic Overall health: Excellent Profession: Design Education High School: Completed College Major: Bachelor of Science in Photography and Design

Personality

I enjoy living simply and elegantly. Though I am friendly and work well with others, I tend to be a private person. Rather than being the center of attention, I prefer to engage in quiet, meaningful conversation. To my family and select friends I am loving and very loyal. I enjoy the outdoors and the solitude it brings. In society I like fine dinning, upscale nightlife, evening walks, good music and good books.

Donor Motivation

My motivation is to procreate, foremost. Though I do not intend on raising children myself, I nonetheless contain the natural propensity every living thing has to reproduce itself. If I can do so and in turn help someone’s dream of having a child of their own become a reality, I consider this a healthy symbiosis.

Contact me at m.adrian@comcast.net.

[Posted on 4 April 2008]

Gay Married Couple Seeking Lesbian Donor

My partner and I of 7 years are looking for a lesbian single/couple to help us in starting a family. We were legally married last year, and have been thinking more and more of starting a family.

In exchange, we would like to be able to help someone else out by giving our sperm to you to help in starting a family of your own.

We both are looking for full parent rights, with the option of you having visitation right for party's and holidays at your choice.

I would be the donor. I am 28, Irish, med brown hair, blue eyes, 6'1 220 (football build).

We are both financially stable. We having a warm and loving home to welcome this new baby.

Please e-mail me at dg5180@aol.com if you are interested or know of anybody that is.

[Posted on 25 November 2007]

Looking for that Perfect Woman to Co-Parent with? City: Boston Well, I'm looking for the perfect male co-parent. Are you a parenting partner who: Wants to be an engaged parent Would be a loving father Lives in Boston area Is physically & mentally healthy Has good relationships with family & friends Is financially secure If you are a man with the unique potential for an arrangement like this, let's get to know one another and see what happens...

About me...Truly a New Englander, I grew up in Connecticut, went to school in Vermont and have lived in Brookline, MA since 1998. I am 32 years old 5'3", 135 lbs, lesbian, long brown hair, hazel eyes and healthy in every way. I enjoy skiing, sailing, tennis, cooking, traveling and my dog Millie.

If interested please email me at seekingafather@comcast.net.

[Posted on 30 October 2007]

Married Gay Male Couple Seeks Single or Lesbian Couple Co-Parent(s) City: Concord We are a gay male couple that has been together 14 years and legally married for 3 years. We are both college educated. Jerry works in information technology and I work in health care. We both have strong family ties and strong friendships. We are seeking a woman or lesbian couple who would like to form a co-parenting relationship with us, and share the rights and responsibilities. We look for someone who is emotionally and financially stable, physically fit and proportionate, and able to handle the responsibilities involved in co-parenting a child. We would need to connect on many levels in order to successfully raise a child. I would be the one who would be the biological father. I am 38 years old, very youthful, good looking, blonde hair, blue eyes, athletic build, 5'8, and in excellent health with no family history of health issues. If you would like to talk more about the idea of co-parenting with us, please send me an email at steve_parker@comcast.net. [Posted on 22 May 2007]

Single Woman Seeks Male Co-parent

Are you considering nontraditional fatherhood? I'm a well-educated, heterosexual woman (age 40) seeking a single man or male couple to have a child with, and to share parenting rights and responsibilities.

Together we would create a family based on trust, respect, compatible values and beliefs, and a similar parenting philosophy. I believe a platonic co-parenting relationship has the greatest chance of success if the partners are responsible, considerate, patient, flexible, exceptional communicators, and fully committed to raising a child together. A sense of humor couldn't hurt either!

I'm looking for a parenting partner who:

• *is a gay or straight single man (or a male couple in a stable, long-term relationship)
• *would be a loving father and deeply engaged in parenting
• *would be interested in roughly equal sharing of parenting duties and financial responsibilities
• *is physically and mentally healthy
• *is kind, intelligent, and has strong and healthy relationships with friends, partners, and/or family.
• *is financially secure

Ideally, I'd like to find someone who would become a good friend, as well as a co-parent. The priority, though, would be for us to raise a happy, healthy child.

Here's a bit about me:

• *I'm 5'3, petite, youthful, and have dark blonde hair and blue eyes.
• *I'm in excellent health.
• *I live in Arlington, MA. I plan to buy a condo this year and ideally would like to live near my parenting partner.
• *I have an undergraduate degree from Rice University and a master's degree from Boston University. I work full-time as a public health professional.
• *I'm a lifelong Democrat and am deeply concerned about the Iraq war, global warming, and the unfathomable callousness of the Bush Administration.
• *I enjoy cooking, digital photography, and hiking, among other things.
• *I'm very close to my family, although we are geographically far apart.

If you think you might be interested in co-parenting, please email me at jjsj7201@gmail.com and we can talk more.

[Posted on 14 March 2007]

Committed Lesbian Couple Seeks Sperm Donor

We are a lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. We are both well educated, stable, and financially secure. We have been together for 6 years. We desperately want a child. Unfortunately, we can not make one on our own. So we would like to ask you for your help.

Our sperm donor would be willing to sign away all rights. Must be drug and disease free. Please respond ASAP. We are anxious to get the process started.

Willing to generously compensate.

More information can and will be provided once we open the lines of communication. Please respond to baby4us143@hotmail.com.

Please consider us. We will make great parents and provide a loving home.

[Posted on 4 February 2007]

Healthy Caucasian Sperm Donor, 36

I am open to donating sperm anonymously to a select couple in the New England area.

I am a single, perfectly healthy, attractive and self-employed thirty-six year old Caucasian male. Per my lifestyle choices, I have no interest in parenting children, but would be open to contributing sperm to a couple who would love to have a child of their own. I neither seek nor desire paternal rights; my intent is simply to contribute genetically.

Photo is attached. Further details are available upon request. Serious queries only, please!

[Posted on 10 January 2007]

Father Wanted: Co-Parent, Uncle or Donor

Thirty-something married lesbian couple would like to have a baby. Your involvement is negotiable. We are both Caucasian but open to a child of any race. We live in Eastern Massachusetts and plan to stay in this area because Kari works as a biochemist in Andover. Naomi is self-employed as a massage therapist and gay wedding planner. We are both college educated, creative, physically and mentally healthy. Please email us and check out our myspace pages to learn more about us.

greenpaisley27@hotmail.com

http://www.myspace.com/eyeamviolet

http://profile.myspace.com/boidrummer2

[Posted on 8 January 2007]

EGG DONOR. EXPERIENCED!!!!

My name is Linda and I am an experienced TS and now I would like to help as an EGG DONOR. I have very good quality eggs. I am a 35 year old lesbian in a long term relationship. I know how hard it is to have children in this lifestyle. I feel that everyone should experience having children if they get the chance. I have had three kids of which of which two are mine and the third is a 1 1/2 year old girl that I carried as a surrogate child. I am very close with the parents.

I am very firm about my requests. I would like everything to be put into the paperwork. I want photos every month for the first year and then once a year until the child is eighteen. I am fine with the child meeting me if that is requested. We are to exchange any address changes until the child reaches the age of eighteen. Other than that I will not require any contact unless the parents initiate. I require a fee of $5000.00 as I am experienced. I have my own lawyer and doctors. I have all of my medical paperwork and psych evaluation. I also have medical insurance. I will also require medical, travel and lawyer expenses that are required. You can contact me at tobey33@gay.com.

[Posted on 12 October 2006]

Looking to Start a Family

It is time to settle into a long time dream. I have accomplished some life time dreams, but my heart yearns for little feet and mouths. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man who is the father of 4 grown children and one infant granddaughter. I am looking for a lesbian couple who are at the same point in life. I am 44 and Steven is 41. I would like a mother who is goal oriented, independent, college educated and a professional. My email is newyearboys@adelphia.net.

[Posted on 22 September 2006]

Donations to Help Married Gay Couple to Start a Family (Surrogacy).. HELP!!

My name is Troy and I have been looking for a local surrogate for quite some time. I was at work combing the Internet and ran across an ad, I live in MA and finally found a surrogate that lives close and its perfect to help us start our family. I have been in a committed relationship for the past 5 years and we already have a 9 year old boy from my partner's previous marriage. I'm 35 and had begun getting a little discouraged thinking that it may never happen. I had been working hard to provide a thriving home for my partner and his child. Financially, there were some tough times while I was the main support for my family. This is in addition to a very messy custody battle that was all about not wanting a child to be raised in a gay environment rather than what was in the child's best interest. I had to put aside my need to have a child while my family stuggled with those issues. Thankfully, with that behind us and our family intact I have begun to hope again to have a child.

I am hoping for a few generous souls to help me complete my dream of having a child. The total cost for the surrogate is 25,000. Any amount is welcome and appreciated. I have always tried to help others where I could and am not great at asking for help, but this is too important and well worth the risk. Each and every donation will be met with an appreciative letter and hopefully baby pictures on what you help create. Even if you don't donate I appreciate that you took the time out to read this far. Any and all donations can be made to our paypal account (ocnstevie@aol.com).

Thank you in advance for your time and attention.

Troy

[Posted on 21 November 2005]